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"Parents located in North London wants to find an exceptional and experienced tutor to assist their smallest child on his first steps to becoming an British gentleman."

Looking at this advertisement, you might naturally miss the wording "beginning" as mere a turn of phrase.

But, it could be the most important part of this unique employment listing, as it aims to find a mentor for a 12-month-old.

Numerous of applications have now been submitted since the unnamed family published their call for the £180k-a-year tutor, who needs to be "a uniquely qualified person".

Over the last few weeks, the advert has received notice in the news, with many questioning why?

Innovative Idea

Adam Caller, head and founder of an education consultancy, which is supporting the family in their search, stated that despite initial doubt, he considered the plan "visionary", and "progressive".

When he spoke with the family, he said they appreciated the unusual character of their demand, and how young their son is.

However, they explained that they "preferred not to postpone any longer" to engage a tutor, as they had waited until their older child was five, and by that stage "cultural influence had already set in".

What exactly did the family indicate by "cultural leaning"?

It's "everything", Adam responded. "The manner you eat, the way you speak".

He explained the firstborn had absorbed "extremely delicate, body language" from the family, and had taken on their cultural habits. The family informed the consultant they hoped to prevent this pattern to happen again with their new baby.

The plan: To bring in a British tutor, who needs to speak with Received Pronunciation, to guide the baby right from the beginning.

Osmotic Learning

"Much of the development at the start here is rather osmotic," explained the expert.

It's via this osmosis that the family are aiming the child will acquire the English characteristics they aim to cultivate.

He noted the tutor must be an individual who studied at "the appropriate educational institutions – similar types of schools as the family aspire to send their son to".

"The educator simply needs to be the right kind of person, they'll be performing things they may not realize they're doing, effortlessly," he added.

Cost Not Relevant

The family told him the chosen tutor should ideally also have knowledge of or passion in riding, skiing, artistic pursuits and musical activities so as to inspire the child in a broad spectrum of passions.

Additionally though, he stated the family wanted the tutor to sign up the child on a range of courses so the child would be "horseback riding and picking up an musical instrument by the time they are approximately three years old".

In the family's perspective, guiding their son become a "UK sophisticate" will bring about success and provide access.

"Taking into account the pros and cons of that, because it's definitely a social class indicator," he comments.

However, despite all this tutelage in "Britishness", might the child absorb alleged cultural leaning from the globally influenced family he is raised by regardless?

"Certainly", said Adam. "They understand this may not work, but they've simply adopted the attitude of, 'we should try and we should start as soon as we can', because the price of it is not relevant," he explained.

Overly Optimistic

Several in the tutoring industry who express similar doubts.

An education leader, head and founder of Blue Education, who provides personal educators, commented that "the development of adopting dual cultures, or indeed, discovering oneself, is something that must be lived into, not manufactured."

Peter noted that he had relocated from Asia to the UK at the age of 7 years old, and had been educated experiencing and living dual heritages. He continued to be educated at the University of Cambridge.

"The idea that a single person can act as a representation of English culture, someone who can in some way transplant the attributes of a UK sophisticate to a one-year-old child, appears naive and unrealistic," he wrote.

"From my perspective, employing a quintessentially UK tutor from infancy will does not automatically create the outcome they desire.

"I wasn't provided with such a tutor, and nevertheless I have been lucky enough to enjoy many of the situations they desire for their son."

He continued: "The fact is, self-identity can not be forced from the external environment; it must be chosen, and it must originate internally."

Buying Britishness

Naturally, Britishness is something the expert thinks can be instructed – and sold.

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